1. He/she doesn’t love Jesus. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because the two of you aren’t on the same page no matter how much you love each other.
  2. He/she is impairing your walk with Jesus. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because the point of your life is to follow Jesus and if someone is impairing this then they are not helping you have your best life!
  3. He/she leads you into sin. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because this person should love you and help you to be more like Jesus
  4. He/she doesn’t love Jesus passionately. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because they will be a drain on your faith.
  5. He/she isn’t striving to make you more godly, just striving to get in your pants. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person?  Because they will make you compromise morally.
  6. He/she justifies the sin in his/her life. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person?  Because you should be with someone who loves Jesus and hates sin.
  7. He/she is arrogant and proud and yet can’t see it. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person?  Because they won’t be open to loving correction from you, no matter how truthful or needed it is.
  8. He/she hardly ever goes to church, reads the Bible or prays. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because he/she will hinder your faith from growing into what it could be.
  9. He/she makes you doubt the bible. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because you need encouragement, not reasons to doubt from the one you love.
  10. He/she repeatedly hurts you physically or emotionally. Why shouldn’t you go out with this person? Because you are created in the image of God and are worthy of love and respect and they aren’t giving you love or respect.

 

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